Monday, December 13, 2004
source: http://www.neatvibe.com/desktop/module/community/groupforum.jsp?ForumId=cab854100cafff3cc786e501does a perfect love exist? yes, it does.. read this...
this post is in response with the post before, I forgot the author, "imperfect love".. just wanna point out my views...
Yes, I do believe that there exist a perfect love between a man and a woman.. when we say perfect, we usually refer to the words "infallible" or "flawless" or "unmistakable" or the likes.. as human being, no can be perfect.. not even one.. but ooppsss.. remember, because we're not "infallible", then we are perfectly human.. to be a perfect human, we should experience everything that life offers.. pains and joys, struggles, mistakes and undertakings, success, and everything.. if one experiences all of these, then that someone surely has lived a perfect life!
this is where my argument of a perfect love begins.. a perfect love between two lovers doesn't mean the infallibility of two individuals bound by love.. at least in our own frame of reference, in human perspective, a perfect love exists.. and this love is the one which is nurtured by pains and struggles and mistakes and undertaking and misunderstandings.. note that these things are part of what we call romantic love.. such perfect love isn't just joy and happiness alone but there is also hurts.. when two lovers are imperfect, and yet they try to hold on inspite of their perfection, it's the sweetest..
such perfect love is not measured by how many beautiful things that happened in the relationship but by measuring how many mistakes were made but overcome because of love.. it's not about how many joys, but it's more on how many sorrows were surpassed.. it's not about happiness but it's about how you love each other in sadness.. it is not thinking that you are bound by destiny but by choice and will to love the person.. isn't that sweeter when somebody loves you because it is her choice taking the opportunity to love you than knowing you've come up together because destiny brought you together.. the more you exert effort to love the person inspite of the imcompatibilities, the more love is glorified.. then the more you know you love the person.. perfect love is not about compatibility but how you resolve opposite point of views together.. it's more on understanding and less in logic.. it is not of justification but of consideration..
pains, hurts, sufferings, struggles, quarrels, incompatibility, understanding, affection, joys, happiness, romance.. ohh.. it's perfect!
si Monyet @ 12/13/2004 06:52:00 PM
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